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 INITIATIVE  Monday, December 15, 2008
Picture this.
Girl: Baby, I want roses. Give me roses?
Boy: Ok.
And the next day, he did buy them and give it to the girl.
However, the girl felt empty and in fact sad.
Why?
Because she HAD to ask for the roses, meaning the boy never did intend to buy for her if she didn't ask.
Compare to a situation where the boy bought the rose as a surprise gift for his special girl.
And you guys never understand why.
Why we girls are so "Unreasonable" and "Difficult to understand".
You bought what we wanted and why are we still upset and so freaking hard to please.
Ask yourself
Which situation is sweeter?
Which has the element of surprise?
Which girl will feel more loved?
Which boy demostrated the initiative to make his special girl happy?
SCREW THIS DEEP INTO YOUR PUNY BRAIN.
A gift DOESN'T mean anything, if the buyer DOESN'T have the intention to buy it in the first place. WHY? It's something call Initiative.
If you love someone, show it.
If you meant to comfort, prove it.
Most importantly take the initiative to do something.
Flooding them with supposingly comforting words doesn't mean anything neither does it help.
Before you start accusing me of being unreasonable and difficult to understand, think about what YOU can do to help me feel better.
Because all you know is to:
- Freaking compare me with them - your past - that I'm obviously not interested and don't wish to be.
- Start telling me, i'm the same old me. Lousy temper, Unreasonable and irritating.
- Throw me that trump card of yours. Trying to push me off to other guys because you don't understand me. Initiating break up is what you do best isn't it? Have I once tried to push u to another girl? Have I?
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You wanna know why am I so stressed out over meeting your friends?
I'm telling you now.
Because, they're are your friends. Best pals in fact.
All aged around mid 20's, mature people with tall and good looking gf.
What am I?
19, immature, petite, childish and obviously average looking girl.
That is why I'm stressed over how I'm gonna dressed.
I have NEVER dine in high-class places.
Let alone Ritz Carlton.
It may sound freaking stupid, but these type of place pressurize me.
I'm clusmy, I have no poise, i'm freaking unglam.
Yet, I don't want you to loses face in front of your friends.
That is why I'm stressed over the dining venue.
I have never see your friends before and first impression is very important.
I want them to think, you have good taste in choosing girlfriends and we suit each other.
That is why I'm stressed over way I look.
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But you don't understand do you?
Do i have to spell out everything for you?
* I doubt you even read this blog of mine.
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INITIATIVE Monday, December 15, 2008
Picture this.
Girl: Baby, I want roses. Give me roses?
Boy: Ok.
And the next day, he did buy them and give it to the girl.
However, the girl felt empty and in fact sad.
Why?
Because she HAD to ask for the roses, meaning the boy never did intend to buy for her if she didn't ask.
Compare to a situation where the boy bought the rose as a surprise gift for his special girl.
And you guys never understand why.
Why we girls are so "Unreasonable" and "Difficult to understand".
You bought what we wanted and why are we still upset and so freaking hard to please.
Ask yourself
Which situation is sweeter?
Which has the element of surprise?
Which girl will feel more loved?
Which boy demostrated the initiative to make his special girl happy?
SCREW THIS DEEP INTO YOUR PUNY BRAIN.
A gift DOESN'T mean anything, if the buyer DOESN'T have the intention to buy it in the first place. WHY? It's something call Initiative.
If you love someone, show it.
If you meant to comfort, prove it.
Most importantly take the initiative to do something.
Flooding them with supposingly comforting words doesn't mean anything neither does it help.
Before you start accusing me of being unreasonable and difficult to understand, think about what YOU can do to help me feel better.
Because all you know is to:
- Freaking compare me with them - your past - that I'm obviously not interested and don't wish to be.
- Start telling me, i'm the same old me. Lousy temper, Unreasonable and irritating.
- Throw me that trump card of yours. Trying to push me off to other guys because you don't understand me. Initiating break up is what you do best isn't it? Have I once tried to push u to another girl? Have I?
___________________________________________________________________
You wanna know why am I so stressed out over meeting your friends?
I'm telling you now.
Because, they're are your friends. Best pals in fact.
All aged around mid 20's, mature people with tall and good looking gf.
What am I?
19, immature, petite, childish and obviously average looking girl.
That is why I'm stressed over how I'm gonna dressed.
I have NEVER dine in high-class places.
Let alone Ritz Carlton.
It may sound freaking stupid, but these type of place pressurize me.
I'm clusmy, I have no poise, i'm freaking unglam.
Yet, I don't want you to loses face in front of your friends.
That is why I'm stressed over the dining venue.
I have never see your friends before and first impression is very important.
I want them to think, you have good taste in choosing girlfriends and we suit each other.
That is why I'm stressed over way I look.
___________________________________________________________________
But you don't understand do you?
Do i have to spell out everything for you?
* I doubt you even read this blog of mine.
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